Are you surviving or just living your life?

In this 21^st century people have various thoughts about their life.  With different generations the way of thinking varies. The way you think might not match the way your parents do. Today people think for future and work each and every time but they forget that they are losing their present while thinking about future, that’s good to make their life secure but it doesn’t mean that you kill your present and think about future every time.

People these days work each and every time possible. Family importance, time for their own life, they are ignoring these things. They are not living their life to fullest, they are living because that is what they have they have to do. Having some good and quality time to relax, a moment alone is must. Thinking about future only and being worried what would future be like does not solve problems, it’s just a waste. Things will happen anyways in the future if it’s got to be. People should try to live for themselves too. Their health and happiness is what matters not how much they work or get stressed out. Yes, it is true that people have to work to fulfill their basic needs but working also has its own limits like everything. People should be able to balance their work with their personal time.

In so many countries like India and Nepal, people drop their interests, the things they wanted to do from childhood, they sacrifices their hobbies just for their children and husband thinking that they’ll earn some by working which will help their children live a good life. This shows that they do not have faith in their children, parents think that they’ll not be able to earn for their own basic stuffs. And some parents are opposite they do not allow their children to do things they want. They prefer to make them continue with family business and stuffs even if they are not interested.  Children, specially teenagers have interest in some specific things, they prefer to be a sportsman, a singer, a chef or anything else but parents do not allow them because they have a thinking that these kinds of interest will never secure their life in future, it’s just a waste of time. Parents think one day their children will regret to their own decision. We say who is even thinking about future we are just doing things we want to do for now.

There is a very good example for this; Chuck Comeau from a band simple plan had the same problem with his life, he was interested in music but his parents thought it was just waste of time, he’s interest wouldn’t secure his life, they never supported chucks with his interest in music, but see where he is know. Chuck and his band had also made a song relating chucks life called perfect dedicating his parents. Are you living your life or just surviving; everyone has right to live their life freely, one cannot keep the other the limitations to live in present not even their own parents. If one has wished to do something they should just go for it. You should not think about anyone not even your family because they’re going to be the one to be proud if you go up high.

If you keep worrying about future you’ll surely spoil it. Just live in present. Do whatever you want to do now. Who has seen future, our life is unexpected, and we have no idea when and where our last day is going to be .so live like it’s your last day of your life with no regrets and no worries.